Showing posts with label blog every day in May. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blog every day in May. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Why I may resort to wearing a bag over my head...

I am currently having a serious #firstworldproblem - my hair. UGH.

Me, every day.
Everything about my hair currently bothers me: the length, the color, the cut, the dryness. Those are my usual issues, though. I'm never happy with it (which is why I've been a serial hair-colorer since I was in 8th grade). I'm not pleased, and maybe that's why it's making my newest issue seem so much worse.

The humidity in NoVa / DC has returned. With a vengeance. And it's only May! This morning when I woke up at 6 AM, it was 70* and 84% humidity. I kid you not. And my hair just cannot handle that.

I let my hair air-dry every night and then straighten it in the morning. I apply some Moroccan oil and some John Frieda Split End Repair Serum while it's wet, then Dove anti-frizz serum after it's dry and straight. And these things are NOT working. In the 15 minutes it takes me to walk from the train platform to my office building, everything has gone to hell in a hand basket. Frizzy, poofy, weird little kinks around my temple... it is not normal. And I'm about 2 steps away from just bringing my straightener to work in the morning and doing it all when I get here. Which, I gather, is not "office appropriate." But I'm at my wit's end, y'all.

Not ok.
Anyone have any serious fixes for humidity-stricken hair? I cannot live all summer like this.

*all images borrowed from Google images


Monday, May 20, 2013

Fitness... Struggle city.

Day 20, Monday: Get real. Share something you're struggling with right now.

I'm going to put it out there for all to see - I'm struggling with my fitness routine. And I hate it. There has been so much going on in my life that I've been skipping a lot of workouts, and my work schedule has been a bit unpredictable, so there are many nights when I get home and have missed my "scheduled" class - so I skip the workout altogether. When that happens, I generally end up sitting on my butt on the couch with a several glasses of wine, so not only am I not getting the workout benefits, I'm negatively impacting the situation even more. And I ain't proud of it. This time last year, I was at the gym five or six days a week. I was pushing hard, and I felt great. Getting my workout in and ensuring my fitness was a priority. It was great! Now, I'm convincing myself more and more nights a week that it's cool to just skip it "once." It's never once, though - it's all the time! I like having time to watch TV and hang out with my husband and relax, but I can feel the difference that my lack of workouts is having. I'm not even following my own #1 rule, which is that anything is better than nothing. All too many times in the last few months, I've settled for nothing. And I have to stop that! It's a struggle, though. Anyone else feel my pain??


Someone help me get my sh%$ together!


Wednesday, May 15, 2013

A day in my life

Day 15: A day in the life.

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7:30 AM - sitting at my desk
8:30 AM - drinking my water
11:30 AM - pre-lunch snack
The end of a bag of the best pita chips ever from TJ's.


12:30 PM - lunch.
Baked potato with chicken, salsa, and Greek yogurt + a yogurt.

1:30 PM - hard at work


2:30 PM - texting L2. Daily baby picture. :)

3:30 PM - view out the window
4:30 PM - on the train home


5:30 PM - out and about

6:30 PM - traffic.

7:30 PM - dinner by C.
Pesto tortellini, Italian sausage, marinara, fresh spinach. Red wine.
8:30 PM - cat playing with tampon. Normal.



Monday, May 13, 2013

Baby love.

I truly, truly meant to blog every day this weekend as part of Blog Every Day in May.... But then on Friday, I got unexpectedly busy. 

Meet the newest love of my life: Brady, my best friend Lindsey's brand new baby boy. I am smitten! He was born late Friday night, a week early, and is about as cute a baby could possibly be. So, one again, you'll see why blogging every day took a backseat to real life... Some things are just more important <3



L2, I'm so proud of you for bringing this sweet little boy into the world! Thanks for letting me be a part of this new life adventure. So happy for you and your precious little family :) xoxo

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Moments

Day 9: a moment in my day. 

A glass of wine on my parents' deck - peace after a frustrating afternoon. 




Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Just what I needed!

Day 8: A piece of advice you have for others. Anything at all.

I had no idea what to write for this particular prompt. I’ve given and received a LOT of advice in my lifetime (haven’t we all??), and I just couldn’t find the right thing to settle on. As I was sitting at my desk this morning, pondering this blog post and discussing a Major Life Event with a co-worker, she offered just the wisdom I needed, and I knew I had to share it:

“If you’re already traveling to Europe, 
just pay the hotel to do your laundry.”

Sometimes it’s just better to let go of the tiny details – if you’re going all the way to Europe, and paying the money to take a big trip, maybe it’s better to just pay the hotel to do your laundry: don’t waste the time and the effort to do something so mundane. Let someone else do it, and enjoy your adventure. If sometime tiny is going to cause you heartache and stress, just let it go – stick to the major details, and everything else will fall into place.



Is this the deepest advice I've ever received? No. Is it the best advice I've ever gotten? Probably not. Was it just what I needed to hear this morning? Absolutely. And so I'm passing it along to you.



Tuesday, May 7, 2013

'Fraidy cat.

Day 7: The thing(s) you're most afraid of.

I daresay that a better question would be "what are you NOT afraid of," as the list would probably be much shorter. Hmm.

It is not a giant secret that I am generally a big ol' 'fraidy cat. I am, as a rule, a jumpy, nervous, scared, anxiety-ridden worrier.  (Yet another character flaw.) In certain circumstances and situations, I am independent and a Big Girl, but that is usually not the case. 

In the interest of time, here is a short, off-the-top-of-my-head, list of things I can remember being afraid of at one time or am currently afraid of (points if you can guess old fears vs. new ones... you'd be surprised! ha):
  • The dark
  • Being murdered
  • My family being murdered
  • Silence
  • Our house burning down
  • Robbers
  • Spiders
  • Bugs in general
  • Getting in a car accident
  • My Peter Rabbit sheets when I was a toddler (explain that one)
  • Scary movies (this includes movies that are not considered "scary" by most standards)
  • Getting caught lying
  • Getting in trouble
  • Failure
  • Public speaking
  • Being put on-the-spot
  • Not knowing the answer
  • Unknown numbers calling me
  • The bottom step of the basement stairs
  • Monsters under my bed (yes, really)
  • Thunder & lightening
I could go on and on. In addition to being scared of a number of mundane things, I am also the person who gasps constantly in the car (drives C insane) when other cars are coming too close (or not) and lets out a small shriek when doors slam.

Do not get me started on what happens when there is a spider in the house. It ain't pretty.

What are you afraid of? Physical things, or mental / emotional things? I clearly have a mix of both...

 

Monday, May 6, 2013

Words of Wisdom

So I've already fallen behind in the Blog Every Day in May challenge... shocking. In my defense, we had a jam-packed weekend, and I thoroughly enjoyed being present with my family and friends rather than spending time on the computer writing blog posts. Some things are just more important! I spent a lot of the weekend taking care of C while he recovered from his wisdom-tooth-removal, visited with L2 on Saturday evening (pedicures, Target, and Chipotle - perfect!) for what is most likely our last visit before the baby comes, and went out to dinner with the in-laws last night. Didn't get much done around the house and the laundry has piled up, but thoroughly enjoyed our weekend nonetheless.

Anyway, I'm going to pick back up with Day 6, but first I wanted to go back to Day 4 - the prompt really spoke to me, and I'd still like to touch on it!

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Day 4: Favorite quote (from a person, from a book, etc) and why you love it

I've always been a "quotes" person - I love song lyrics, book excerpts, sayings and phrases, etc. I have always been a word-lover, and sometimes things just strike a cord with me. I have a long list of "favorites"!

One of my ultimate favorites is this:

"Be kinder than necessary for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."

This quote is attributed to several different people, and worded several different ways on the internet, but the gist of it is the same. I originally found this quote a few years ago when I was working in health care, and it really grabbed at my heart. It is the ultimate truth - every single person is fighting a battle. It may be harder or not as hard as another person's; it may be more important or less important, bigger or smaller. In the end, though, every battle is just that - a fight. A struggle to get by. And for that reason, it's important to remember to just be kind to people. You just never know what people are dealing with, or going through behind the scenes. Working in health care taught me so many important lessons about people and humanity and relationships, and I have found myself to be far more compassionate and mindful of other people's battles, thanks to that experience.

What's your favorite quote? 
Link up with the BEDiM challenge!

 

Friday, May 3, 2013

Uncomfortable

Day 3: things that make you uncomfortable.

There are so many. So very many things that make me uncomfortable. It's probably best just to address this in list form...
  • Phone calls. There is very little in the world that makes me more uncomfortable than talking on the phone. Just about anyone who knows me can attest to this - I will literally do everything possible to avoid making or answering a phone call (unless it's like.. my family or friends). I hate calling to order pizza. I hate calling clients or co-workers. I never answer unknown numbers when they call. I will text you, email you, smoke-signal you... if it does not involve the phone, it is a better choice for me. Also, I have no idea why this is the case.
  • Spiders. B!tches are everywhere. And I despise them.
  • Seeing someone else be embarrassed. This includes real life, television, movies, etc. If someone else is embarrassed, I am wiggling in uncomfortableness until it ends.
  • Watching sex scenes in movies with my parents. I feel like most people can relate...
  • Driving in places that I'm unfamiliar with. Shoot - driving in places I AM familiar with can make me uncomfortable. I hate being in charge of getting anyone anywhere, because I'm pretty sure I will get lost. I have a terrible sense of direction, and I've embraced it.
  • Math. Especially math on the spot. If someone says "hey, can you add up...." or "what is 23% of 2 million?!" and needs an answer right away, it's almost 100% guaranteed that I'm turning red.
  • Job interviews / self-assessments. For someone who loves talking about herself, I really hate talking about myself when it counts.
I'm pretty sure I could double or triple this list in no time. But for everyone's sake, I'll leave it at these few things.... and I'm actually sitting here shuddering just thinking about them. Blerg.


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In other news, C had his wisdom teeth out this morning. He's known for a while that they needed to come out; he just put it off. Today was finally the day. We've spent the day in a haze of pain killers and ice packs and pudding cups. I took the following photo earlier after an "emergency" run to the grocery store:

His and her necessities
Here's wishing for a quiet weekend and an easy recovery!

Thursday, May 2, 2013

What I know.

First things first... a big ol' happy birthday to my mama! Love you!

Hope your day is just as good as this one was :)

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Day 2: Educate us on something you know a lot about or are good at.

If you asked my mother, she’d probably tell you that I know a lot about everything – or at least I think I do. I’ve always been that way – I’ve always been the smart one, the know-it-all, the one quick to correct others when I’m positive pretty sure that I’m right. It’s a character flaw, I know. When I read this prompt, though, I was stumped. Educate others? On something I know a lot about? Or do well? What the heck. I drew a complete blank. I know nothing! I was sure.

And then, out of the blue, a memory came to me. A distinct memory, from somewhere deep in the recesses of my brain. In third grade, we had show-and-tell with themes – animals, hobbies, what I want to be when I grow up… you know the deal. One month, the theme was “teach us how to do something.” I don’t remember what any of my classmates taught, but I’m sure they were the usual things: how to tie a knot, how to make a PB&J, how to jump rope. When it was my turn, though, I did as I always do, and made things complicated. I knew just what my lesson should be: I wanted to teach my classmates how to make a milkshake. Yes, really. It was something we did regularly at home – milkshakes, blender drinks, smoothies; we were always throwing things in the blender and giving it a whirr. So, naturally, that’s what I wanted to share with my class. Never mind that a ten-year-old can’t really bring a blender to school, and that the ingredients needed to be frozen, and that, generally, this was about as complex as show-and-tell could get. I had my heart set on it.

My mother, the saint that she is, indulged encouraged me, and helped me figure out a way to get it done. I brought a big plastic bowl and wooden spoons and a whisk, and we made arrangements to keep my necessities in the freezer in the cafeteria. A little while before show-and-tell, my teacher and I retrieved the ice cream, and left it out in the classroom to soften. When my turn came, I got up there in front of the class, put all my ingredients in the bowl, and stirred and stirred until it was finally “milkshake” consistency. Then I doled it out into little paper cups and served it to my friends. In retrospect, I’m sure it was terrible, but at the time, it was perfect. I was so proud of what I’d accomplished. Even in third grade, I knew that a hair-brained idea just takes a little persistence (or pestering of your mother) and a little manual labor (no idea how long it took me to STIR that milkshake up), and you can make it happen. Plus, I “taught” my classmates something really cool!

Moral of the story is, if anyone wants to know how to make a milkshake, just let me know… I’m something of an expert.

Disclaimer: this may or may not be an exercise in creative non-fiction... the details are the facts, as much as my brain can recall them. I did email my mom this morning to verify that it was a real memory, so that's good... Take it or leave it!

And now I’m singing “my milkshake brings all the boys to yard…….” – and so are you! 



Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Story of my life.

Hi there. I've been a bit MIA - sorry about that. In general, I don't really have the words for the month of April. Many things were written in my head, but for some reason, I just couldn't get them down on paper (screen). C'est la vie.

In an effort to get myself back into blogging (and really, into writing in general), I'm taking on a challenge: blog every day in May. This is a link-up with Jenni at Story of My Life. She's offering writing prompts for every day of the month, and I'm going to do my best to tackle them. No guarantees that the writing won't be rambley and jumbled - bear with me!

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Day 1: The story of your life in 250 words or less.

I arrived in this world exactly two weeks late, on a cold January morning in Germany. I can’t help the fact that I’m always late – I was literally born that way! My sister came along almost three years later, and our little family of four shares a tight-knit bond. I was an Army brat who didn’t get the typical experience: we moved a lot before I was 5, but I spent K-12 living in just one house. I was always pretty indifferent to living in Virginia, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve found myself really attached to it – it truly is my home state, and I’m proud of it. My childhood hobby was dancing – everything from ballet and jazz classes to competitive dance team. I can tie a perfect hair bow, and I still have a deep love of glitter. I toured college after college, and when I stepped foot on the campus of Virginia Tech, I knew I was home. VT was the only college I applied to, and Blacksburg will always have my heart. I met my husband in a poetry class, but, before you ask, he’s never written me a poem. Our wedding was a huge party with a quick ceremony first, just like we wanted. We have a crazy cat who we rescued, and we’d like to have a dog someday. Now, we’re hunting for the perfect house with a deck and a yard that can be our family home – we know it’s out there somewhere!

Bam. 250 words on the dot!