Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

If I wasn't here, I'd be there

It's always approximately this time of year when I start to get really antsy and cabin-fevery: I love winter, and will always prefer being cold to being hot, but it reaches a point where it's just too much. I inevitably find myself researching vacations and daydreaming about spontaneously escaping for a few days.... the likelihood of actually ever doing this is slim-to-none, but thinking about it saves my sanity for a couple of hours. If only I had a bigger bank account and a lot more vacation leave saved up. Wishful thinking! But how good do these deals look?


IRELAND! Another Groupon Getaway. OMG, what I'd give to hop on a plane...

A quick two-day cruise to the Bahamas with Groupon Getaways... that would be enough, wouldn't it?

Wine tasting in Carmel, CA, with LivingSocial Escapes - I'd be there in a heartbeat.

I had a work trip to Florida booked for next week, and the thought of it was keeping me going... and then we had to cancel. BOO. Seriously. Work, sure, but Florida, also! Where it's sunny and 70 and not windy and gray and cold. It would have been amazing to be there for a few days instead of here.

What's your best cure for winter weather blues? If you could go anywhere today, where would you go? I'm talking pack-a-bag-and-you're-gone.... what's the destination for you??

Thursday, August 7, 2014

A girl can dream...

Do you ever daydream about what you'd do if you suddenly found yourself with a little spare cash? I mean, I know the right answers - invest, put it in a rainy day fund, pay off a debt or a bill... but what if you didn't have to do those things? What if you just suddenly found yourself with an extra chuck of change, and you could do whatever you wanted with it? Wouldn't it be fun to have the luxury, just once, to go out and do anything you wanted with it? Let's just dream about it for a minute or two...


The first thing I'd do is finally hit "purchase" on my Pottery Barn shopping cart - I've had new drapes for our main floor sitting in there for month,s and I just cannot pull the trigger! I'm dying for new window treatments now that we have pretty new paint on the walls, but the only curtains I've found so far that I love cost an arm and a leg - PER PANEL. Whyyyy don't they come in sets of 2, at least?? Anyway. Those curtains would set me back $389.

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Left with $611, I'd then hit "purchase" on my Lucy shopping cart, and finally buy myself two new pairs of leggings. I adore my Lucy leggings (I have a pair of the X-Training Capris and a pair of the Hatha Capris) and I wear them constantly, both for workouts and for lounge wear, and I could definitely use some new ones. Buying a one of each type would cost me $158.

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With $453 still in my wallet, I'd head to my favorite day spa and book a day of pampering. I've been craving a massage for months now, and what girl wouldn't want to take her spa experience to the next level? A package including a sugar scrub mani and pedi, deep cleaning facial, massage, eyebrow wax, and shampoo, cut, and blowdry would cost me $348, including a tip.

At this point, I'd be completely relaxed and blissful, and be looking to spend my remaining $105. A dinner date with my husband sounds like the perfect way to blow that last chunk!

I'd make us a reservation at one of our favorite local restaurants, Poppy Hill, and we'd get all cleaned up and pretty before heading to dinner. Once seated, we'd order a bottle of wine and their crab crostini appetizer to share. Then, we'd order entrees - chicken parmigiana for her, chianti blueberry BBQ short ribs for him. We'd slowly enjoy our meal and our wine, and even though we'd be completely stuffed, I'd convince C to get a homemade chocolate chip cannoli to share - can't pass up amazing dessert opportunity!
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When paying our tab, we'd be a little generous with the tip, and the total would end up to be $104

Happy and full of delicious Italian food, we'd make our way home to get comfy on the couch and continue binge-watching Parks and Rec (I just can't stop!) - the ideal evening!

If you've been following along with my math, you'll know that I didn't quite spend all $1000... I've got $1 left. What to do with that dollar?!.... Put it in savings, of course! :)

So tell me...
  • What would you do with a spare $1000??

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

That Pie in the Sky (Or at the Lake)

You may have noticed, here and there, references to the current Big Thing going on around here – it’s been a bit behind-the-scenes, but as of this past weekend, I’m officially ready to share. Drum roll please……..

My parents have made something amazing happen. They have fulfilled a major dream of theirs. They bought a LAKE HOUSE!!



For as long as I can remember, my family has always talked about The Lake House (capital letters required). It’s been the “someday,” “when dreams come true,” “when we win the lottery,” "pie-in-the-sky," pipe-dream thing for my parents – they love to be at the lake, and the idea of owning their own special place was always in the backs of their heads. Visiting The Lake House, fixing it up, retiring there, the whole nine yards, has been regular conversation in our house. In fact, it sort of became a running joke – “Dad’s on the computer again! Searching for The Lake House!” “Dad picked up another real estate brochure – maybe it has The Lake House!” In the last few years, as my sister and I finished up with college and such, my dad has started talking to realtors and actually going to look at houses. A weekend here, a weekend there, house after house. It was such a big dream, he and my mom wanted to find the perfect house. And the perfect house just never really presented itself. They weren’t willing to settle when it came to The Lake House. So it remained a lofty goal, a “someday when we’re older…”

And then one day, earlier this summer, they found it. The Lake House. The one they’ve always looked for. It had everything they’ve always put on the “want” list – the screen porch. The garage. The dock. The fireplace. The big driveway. The house was kind of old, but it was in great condition. The appliances worked. The paint was fresh. The price was right. And suddenly, The Lake House wasn’t such a faraway dream anymore. It was right in front of my mom and dad. And so, they took the cross-the-Grand-Canyon leap, and they bought that house. They made their dream come true.

House-warming gift from the realtor!
Keys to the house!
Dad with the very first carload of "stuff" for the house
Left at the fork in the road...
Proud home owner!!
My parents, obviously, inspire me in a lot of ways. I think they’re great. I think they’re wonderful people, and parents, and have set an amazing example of how a marriage should be for my sister and I. I know that the two of us were never the easiest kids to raise, and there were times when we all made each other crazy, but looking back, with a more mature eye, I see how truly great my sister and I had it. This purchase, though, this is something entirely different. My parents have taught me how to have dreams, how to have goals, and then how to make those things happen. They set their mind to something, and they took all the steps to make sure it happened. They worked hard for years, and they saved their money for years, and they took baby steps far in advance so that, years later, they'd be able to do what they wanted to do. It was a long process, but they were patient – so patient – and waited for exactly the right house to come around. And they got exactly what they deserved, exactly what they’d worked and waited for for so many years. They got The Lake House. And the minute I stepped foot through the front door this past weekend, it felt like home – it felt like it had always been ours. I cannot wait for the years to come and the memories that we will make at that house. I can’t wait to have Thanksgiving there this year, and to bring my babies there someday. I can’t wait to play on the dock every summer, and chase the dog that I’m pretty sure my parents will have someday. There is so much that awaits us with this house. It’s already a dream come true, but it’s going to get better with every visit.

I am so proud of my parents, and so excited about what’s in store for them. I know that they are going to make this house their own, and it’s going to be absolutely perfect. They have earned it. They deserve it. And I get to reap the benefits of having amazing parents.

The Lake House. Finally!
View from the dock

Monday, August 6, 2012

Beached.

You may have noticed it's been a bit quiet around here lately... for good reason! We escaped for a few days and headed down to the Outer Banks in North Carolina for some quality beach time. Just what this girl needed! I had a blast during our trip to Nashville, but I was itching for some sun, sand, and salt water. I honestly can't remember a summer when I've gone until August without at least getting a day or two at the beach - this was stretching my limits. Our trip came right as I was about to hit crisis-mode, suffering from beach withdrawl. OBX to the rescue!

Sunset on the Sound

Beach breakfast... just can't break my usual habits

BFFs
Like straight out of a commercial... perfect
Beach babe, beach braid - pretty proud of that one!

Saturday morning run... can't beat that view!
Recreating our Awkward Family Photo - it's surprisingly easy to be this weird.

Needless to say, it was rather difficult to get out of bed when my alarm went off this morning... I need to live at the beach.
We have a long-term pipe-dream plan that between Lindsey and her husband, my sister and her husband, and C and I, someday we will own a beach house, a lake house, and a ski house, and split our vacation time between the three and be happy as clams. Until that happens, we will have to settle for spending time at houses owned by other people... and just keep dreaming.

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Check out Lindsey's post on our trip, too, if you'd like to see it from another angle... and also with better pictures, since her husband has a legit camera and I have an iPhone. Whatever.

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Dreamin' Big

I've spent most of the morning trying to convince C that we need to buy this house immediately:


Is that, or is that not, simply incredible?! It was built in 1885 by a ferryboat captain, and it's located in historic Occoquan, VA, right along the river. And I legitimately want to own it. C is not quite as quick to jump on the ship (teehee!) with me. It would obviously require way more money to restore than we have and way more time and energy to restore and then maintain than we have as well. He's so logical. I was ready to place an offer. HA!

If we ever win the lottery, I will be buying a house just like this before you can bat an eye. It's just so full of history and stories and hidden beauty! Sigh. Love.

....Anyone have a few hundred-thousand dollars lying around that I can have?